Life's Treasures, "A Self Development Journey"

3 Tips On How To Be More Decisive And Feel Great Don’t you hate it when someone asks you, “where do you want to go eat?” and you reply, whatever you’d like,” That conversation just doesn’t feel good.  The other person doesn’t want to make a decision, and you don’t want to make the decision.  Well, that goes for everything in life.  Practice the art of being decisive in all of the areas in your life.  It’s powerful. I couldn’t get myself to choose anything.  The fact that I couldn’t come to a decision gave me anxiety. Recently, I read the book 4-hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss.  The message that resonated with me was, to eliminate the unwanted, and to become decisive.  For example, he states, “you need to develop the uncommon habit of making a decision, both for yourself and for others.”  Now I practice with everything that comes my way.  I will always strive to choose what I want.   Below I will share wi...

How To Transform Your Soul, Give A Nice Compliment When you receive a compliment, it feels good.  Don’t you agree?  But, you will feel even better when you give a nice compliment.  Try it. I love compliments.  The Five Love Languages written by Gary Chapman , helps couples unite and live a better life knowing each other's love language.  My love language is a word of affirmation.  In simple terms, I enjoy a nice compliment.  I understand that my love language is different from everyone else, however deep inside, I know how powerful a compliment goes when given with sincerity. This week I will share with you, five best scenarios when to give a compliment.  Try them out with your friends, family, and spouse.  Heck, give me a compliment I will welcome it. Outfits  Have you ever gone out with friends and noticed their outfits?  Wow, nothing feels better than to receive a compliment about what you are wearing.  Go o...

How To Stop Caring What Others Think About You Are you competing with others? Your co-workers, other bloggers, your spouse or is it your neighbors? If you feel that you are competing with anyone, stop yourself. Enjoy what you are doing, enjoy your success.  I bet you’ve heard this before; it’s about the journey, not the destination. Dwell on that phrase because it’s true.    I own it.  I’m very competitive, but I have learned to play the game of life without competing. I only compete when I play a sport.  And if you know me well, I haven’t played a game in a long time.  Therefore, I am not competing. My game of life consists of choosing my thoughts, actions, and outcomes.  I am entirely responsible.  It sounds like one huge cliché, but that’s exactly how I feel.  And it feels good. The main reason you are competing is that you care what others think about you.  If I may say, “Stop it.” It’s not healthy, and it’s not ne...

3 Simple Steps To Reprogram Your Mind With Positive Thoughts Your mind doesn't stop because of all the information going around.  Mostly the problem is with your negative thoughts.  You are either thinking of a past problem or worse an issue that doesn’t even exist.  Why?  Because your subconscious is busy replaying your old unwanted thoughts.   I recently had a life changing and brilliant conversation with my niece and her friend.  By sharing my story, I realized how much I had worked on reprogramming my mind and how it truly works.  I shared with them my process, and I want to share that process with you.  It all started a couple of years ago. I stumbled across you tube videos, and one stands out the most.   I watched Brendon Burchard, and his video is How To Reprogram Your Mind .  The video was life changing for me.  Not only did I watch the video, but I also transcribed it to practice and become an expe...